I suggest you try not to hurt anyone in the process, but relax and enjoy finding out what works for you. We asked people to tell us about their sexual preferences, history, behaviour, thoughts and beliefs, and then asked them to plot themselves on the Kinseyscale. Nobody ever wants to be placed in a box. I went to a single-sex school and have never really had any female friends. That the idea of homosexuality was simply wrong.
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Gay, straight, bi or none of the above? How to describe your sexuality
I think that this means that people can find themselves attracted to people of all sexes, even if they have a preference for masculine or feminine people. It's long been my theory that in secondary education single-sex schools are great for girls, for whom boys are a distraction, and terrible for boys who afterwards take years to reconcile themselves to women as friends and equals. Contact Us contact us using our online form. I previously identified as bisexual, but I am increasingly only attracted to women though I am married to a man. I was simply wired differently.
Why do I experience same-sex attraction? My attraction is more physical, emotional, and sensual than exclusively sexual. At the same time though, if that person began to have feelings for someone outside of their professed gender or sexuality, that sets them up for a pretty hard time trying to work through those feelings. The Kinsey scale should only be there as an illustrative example of the fluidity of sexuality, not some other peg to hang your sex hat on. I was simply wired differently.